the heart is infinitely more reasonable and accepting than the mind.....the mind is stiff because of acquired "positionality"...it is the mind which "fell" in love as u perceived it....to fulfil it's need....the heart makes you "grow" and nourishes you..even in pain....a pov...
couchpotato
· 4 years ago
Think I know that feeling. Comes somewhere in between that scorpion-in-your-shoe-feeling and snail-in-a-can-of-fevicol-feeling, doesn't it? Cheer up! ;)
~Sen~
· 4 years ago
sigh.
You'll make people really cry someday. This smithy is so different from the one that walks around at XXfac.Though that one did surface for sometime in the middle of the post, guess today eventually belonged to the other one. You take care, dearie.
Hmmm.Well, now i gotta get back to business..... the week long endsems start in less than 12 hours :| Sumbaaady pray for me puhleeeeeez!
Blue Athena
· 4 years ago
Hmmmm.
It's not we who are the losers but they who lost out on love (or lust) unblemished
Take heart! :))
APOO
· 4 years ago
First off, its a brave act to admit you didnt practice what you preached. I admire you for that.
Now, lets talk about the lust part. Please grace a stip club (male striptease, just to clarify) every weekend. If time permits, week days too. Send me the lap dance bills if u wish. Once the lust is outta that system, come back. We'll sit face to face and talk about love then :P
abhi
· 4 years ago
..................
Evenstar
· 4 years ago
You've done your bit! Speaking to somebody I've been with for 10 years would have killed me, espcially when he's about to get married. But you survived. And see, the dettachment you achieved, the levelling down you did - it worked. Why else would he have asked you to come for the wedding....? It would have been better if you wouldn't have made it at the last minute. It would have sounded so much more casual :-(
Sue
· 4 years ago
Thanks for introducing me to Post a Secret.
ganty
· 4 years ago
boss i really dont know u but u seem to have gone thru shit well two options that u know u have are 1- live in it and revel in the banalities of being single 2- live in it and aspire for a higher status yea bottomline live in it i guess u know tht is life boss and nuthing brave about this post i feel; u have spoken for millions though, cos all of us feel like this at some point of time in life and all of us are trying our best to hide insecurities... lol almost made a post!!!
Arunima
· 4 years ago
Ah what should I say? 10 years? was it with the same guy? If it was with the same guy, admit it once that you were in love. It will make things very easy for you. You will know what to feel. It is not our fault that somebody couldn't love us enough. I know deep down we know what we deserve and that will make us carry on or to forget the undeserving.
Arjun
· 4 years ago
I'm impressed by the sagacity of your commentators. From the little I know of you, I gather that this is a rather significant turning point. I'm happy for you.
IdeaSmith
· 4 years ago
Sundar: That's an apt observation.
Couchpotato: Strange way to describe it but well...these feelings are strange.
Sen: Thenk yew thenk yew!! Now ged back to your books!! And call me sometime this weekend!
Blue Athena: I don't know if 'they' are losers....the fact is I don't even care anymore.
Apoo: Ahhh....is this all in lieu of the 'sensitive supportive partner' image? Still, thank you for that.
Abhi: "......" is all I ever heard from you when we were classmates too! :-)
Evenstar: It wasn't about revenge. It was about not even needing to get even anymore, because you can't compare two people who aren't equals.
Sue: Ur welcome. Its one of my favorite blogs.
Ganty: Sometimes its unsettling to know that others identify with you. At other times, its comforting. Ah...this business of being human!!!
Arunima: It wasn't love. THAT is what I needed to admit and I've finally done it!
Arjun: It is a turning point. And you probably know me a lot better than most of my other blog-friends.
nomadic_waves
· 4 years ago
Deja vu...thatz exactly the word to describe what i felt when i read this post of yours...
Ava
· 4 years ago
I am impressed. Thank you for sharing this with us. You're on a way up, you've touched ground and from now on, you can only win, there is nothing to lose. You're extremely intelligent, you're sensitive and beautiful inside, now I see that you're also brave and sensible. Awknowledge that, and embrace it, don't let anyone tell you or treat you different. Anyone who is with you is extremely blessed and fortunate to have you, so from this day on, live by that premise...
Demi Goddezz
· 4 years ago
Smithy: ..I wont give u any advice or lecture..just a Hug ...for going thru what u did... for doing what u are doing now..and for what u might do in future....cheers...to happiness
Brad
· 4 years ago
I thought I was in Love, But I guess I wasn't.
Years wasted, Time spent, Fond memories cherished, Down the drain they all went.
Deja-vu, It happened again, This time I knew, It wasn't Love, t'was just Lust, My heart heaved a Phew.
Am I glad or what, it's over, I said what I had to say, It's time to be indifferent again, To bid a final adieu, To walk away, come what may!
IdeaSmith
· 4 years ago
Nomadic_waves: I'm amazed at how many people seem to identify with this. Apparantly I'm not the only one making long-term mistakes :p
Ava: Thank you very much. Its validation.
Demi-godezz: {{{{{}}}}}...thx!!!
Brad: Spectacular, as always. You're wasted on anonymous blogging.
Aekta
· 4 years ago
BTW comments should be disabled for some posts, perhaps like this one. :-) There are some things you need to deal with yourself.
abhi
· 4 years ago
kinda agree with aekta ...
and you know what i meant with those dots, its defi not "no comment"
life's beautiful
News: i talk a lot now
IdeaSmith
· 4 years ago
Aekta: How can I disable comments for just one post? Tried that once and ended up messing my template...*sighhh* no rest for the techno-greeks!
Abhi: Very interesting...I don't even seem to remember what your voice sounds like, you were THAT quiet! Good to know ur doin' well..
APOO
· 4 years ago
Yes, he speaks five words a day now.
"booze, booze, booze, booze, booze"
iyer education
· 4 years ago
abhi doin the talkin... i thought bird talking endlessly was doin rounds all over the country...
IdeaSmith
· 4 years ago
No wonder people keep saying "A little birdie told me..."
iyer education
· 4 years ago
LOL... must be true.. just that this BIRD is neither little nor cute to be called "birdie"...
Saltwater Blues
· 4 years ago
hey Smithy, good to see u again after a very long time. Hope ur doin good.
survival4me
· 4 years ago
When god takes away somone from our lives ..he assures that we get some one more beautiful in return .....:-)... Be glad it happened....
All Comments
Cheer up! ;)
You'll make people really cry someday. This smithy is so different from the one that walks around at XXfac.Though that one did surface for sometime in the middle of the post, guess today eventually belonged to the other one.
You take care, dearie.
Hmmm.Well, now i gotta get back to business..... the week long endsems start in less than 12 hours :|
Sumbaaady pray for me puhleeeeeez!
It's not we
who are the losers
but they
who lost out
on love (or lust)
unblemished
Take heart! :))
Now, lets talk about the lust part. Please grace a stip club (male striptease, just to clarify) every weekend. If time permits, week days too. Send me the lap dance bills if u wish. Once the lust is outta that system, come back. We'll sit face to face and talk about love then :P
but u seem to have gone thru shit
well two options that u know u have are
1- live in it and revel in the banalities of being single
2- live in it and aspire for a higher status
yea bottomline live in it
i guess u know tht is life boss
and nuthing brave about this post i feel;
u have spoken for millions though, cos all of us feel like this at some point of time in life and all of us are trying our best to hide insecurities...
lol almost made a post!!!
From the little I know of you, I gather that this is a rather significant turning point. I'm happy for you.
Couchpotato: Strange way to describe it but well...these feelings are strange.
Sen: Thenk yew thenk yew!! Now ged back to your books!! And call me sometime this weekend!
Blue Athena: I don't know if 'they' are losers....the fact is I don't even care anymore.
Apoo: Ahhh....is this all in lieu of the 'sensitive supportive partner' image? Still, thank you for that.
Abhi: "......" is all I ever heard from you when we were classmates too! :-)
Evenstar: It wasn't about revenge. It was about not even needing to get even anymore, because you can't compare two people who aren't equals.
Sue: Ur welcome. Its one of my favorite blogs.
Ganty: Sometimes its unsettling to know that others identify with you. At other times, its comforting. Ah...this business of being human!!!
Arunima: It wasn't love. THAT is what I needed to admit and I've finally done it!
Arjun: It is a turning point. And you probably know me a lot better than most of my other blog-friends.
You're extremely intelligent, you're sensitive and beautiful inside, now I see that you're also brave and sensible. Awknowledge that, and embrace it, don't let anyone tell you or treat you different. Anyone who is with you is extremely blessed and fortunate to have you, so from this day on, live by that premise...
But I guess I wasn't.
Years wasted, Time spent,
Fond memories cherished,
Down the drain they all went.
Deja-vu, It happened again,
This time I knew,
It wasn't Love, t'was just Lust,
My heart heaved a Phew.
Am I glad or what, it's over,
I said what I had to say,
It's time to be indifferent again,
To bid a final adieu,
To walk away, come what may!
Ava: Thank you very much. Its validation.
Demi-godezz: {{{{{}}}}}...thx!!!
Brad: Spectacular, as always. You're wasted on anonymous blogging.
and you know what i meant with those dots, its defi not "no comment"
life's beautiful
News: i talk a lot now
Abhi: Very interesting...I don't even seem to remember what your voice sounds like, you were THAT quiet! Good to know ur doin' well..
"booze, booze, booze, booze, booze"
Be glad it happened....